In a world full of distractions, one of the most dangerous tactics people use to control others is manipulation through communication. Some people will criticize your way of communicating, not because they care about your words, but because they are frustrated that they can’t control or manipulate you. If you don’t give them the constant validation they crave, they’ll label you as distant or rude. But here’s the truth: if you prioritize quality over quantity in your communication, you’re doing something right.
1. Communication is Not About Quantity
The world today often equates communication with constant interaction—texts, emails, and messages that flood your phone. The expectation is that you must respond quickly, and at all hours. But a real man knows that communication isn’t about how many words you can type. It’s about quality, purpose, and the power of silence. A lion doesn’t waste energy barking back at every dog; it stays focused on its goal. When someone criticizes you for not responding fast enough, what they’re really upset about is that you’re not letting them manipulate your time and attention.
2. The Manipulators Bark, but You Don’t Have to Listen
Just like the small dog barking at the lion, manipulators will try to get your attention through constant demands for communication. They want you to react, to give them your energy, and to be at their beck and call. But here’s where you need to be strong: a real man doesn’t turn around when the small dog barks. He stays focused, moves forward, and refuses to be swayed by petty distractions. The phrase “Leo parvum caniculam dum latrat constupro” means “The lion rapes the small dog when it barks,” and sometimes, a man has to take necessary counter-measures against barking manipulators. Silence them with your actions, not your words.
3. You’re Not Obligated to Enter Their Games
When people criticize your communication, it’s often because they want you to engage on their terms. They expect incessant communication, and when you put quality before quantity, they see it as a threat. You’re not obliged to entertain their games. Keep your communication to the point, and refuse to let others dictate how you manage your time. Remember, a man’s time is valuable. Don’t let anyone waste it by demanding constant contact.
4. Fair Game: Handling Scammers with Justice
If someone has wronged you, especially when it comes to big money, don’t let them walk away unscathed. If you’ve been scammed, it’s fair game to do what you need to do to set the record straight. You don’t owe them leniency or patience, and you certainly don’t owe them your silence. It’s about taking control and making sure those who try to manipulate you face the consequences of their actions. It’s not about revenge, it’s about justice and not letting people get away with crossing you.
In conclusion, don’t be afraid to stand firm in your communication style. If people criticize you for not responding immediately or constantly engaging, know that they’re really upset because you don’t let them control you. A lion stays focused on the hunt, ignoring the yapping dogs. Be like the lion—choose quality over quantity, and protect your time and energy.
