Lifestyle

Some People Don’t Want to Heal — They Want to Be Pitied

Let’s stop pretending everyone wants to get better.Because the truth? Some people don’t want healing.They want an audience. They don’t want to climb out of the pit — they want you to sit in it with them and hand them snacks. They vent for hours, days, years — repeating the same tired monologue like it’s […]

Lifestyle

Breaking Free from the Cult of Victimhood

Do you ever wonder why some people seem to thrive off constantly playing the victim? It’s become a culture of its own, with people building their entire identities around their wounds. But the truth is, they would rather stay broken than face the possibility of finding out who they are without their victimhood. And I, […]

Self-improvement

Suck it Up: The Harsh Truth About Seeking Sympathy Instead of Solutions

We’ve all been there – stuck in a challenging situation, feeling overwhelmed and seeking validation and sympathy from those around us. But let’s face it, sympathy may feel good in the moment, but it won’t get us out of the rut we’re in. In fact, it’s more likely to keep us stuck in that position. […]